A year ago I never would have imagined where I’m at today and how my blogging plans took a different course. About a year ago exactly, I launched this blog. Diligently, I posted about three times per week, if not four, an important rule of thumb in the blogging world, consistency and frequency. The blog was my project and my only concern, other than work and general life activities.
My husband and I had been planning on taking on a puppy, something we’d talked about for some time. We thought that’d be a great way to start a family. Our gorgeous Goldendoodle Dottie joined us at home in December. Little did I know how much work a puppy required of me. I had never owned a dog before, just a cute chinchilla. Well, it turns out that Goldendoodles are extremely friendly and energetic, but also high energy and require quite a bit of attention and training! I suppose that’s true for many dog breeds, but it sure seems like it really applies to the cute Poodle/ Golden Retriever mix. Before Dottie came home, we thought it’d be fun to make a website with photos and stories about her. We even thought about making tee shirts with her face on them. I was able to keep that up for a few months. An integral part of this story though is that two weeks after Dottie arrived, we discovered we were expecting another addition, a cute lil’ baby! No, not a baby dog, an actual baby! Wow, what did I get myself into?
Morning sickness didn’t wait long to grace me with its presence everyday for the next 3 months. Needless to say, this is about where my working projects online, and offline, came to a halt. Once the first trimester ended, I got some energy and motivation back, but it still didn’t compare to my pre pregnancy stamina.
Today, my child is finally asleep, after about five hours of on and off fussing. So, I’ve managed to fit in this quick post. Maybe I’ll be able to keep it up!
Instead of resuming the 30 day project, I switched gears to creating a project for the nursery (among many others to come, I’m sure).
Last year I stumbled upon a wonderful vintage lamp. The lampshade fabric was in need of an overhaul, but the lamp base was really cool. Unfortunately, the lamp was knocked over and the beautiful base broke! I knew I could find a use for the shade, so I kept it. Low and behold, I’ve found a use for it! I must admit, Pinterest is one website I truly enjoy. Thus, the idea for this project was inspired by a few different things I found while pin surfing.
These are the steps I took to create this whimsical decoration:
I spray painted the frame with Rustoleum. After I removed the rust-stained fabric, I cleaned it up with a wire brush and then painted it.
To gather supplies, I found vintage beads at a local antique store. Then I gathered fabric from shirts at a thrift store. Finally, the ribbon I chose came from Michael’s.
The first step from this point was prepping the fabric. I ripped the shirts into strips. Then, I covered each lamp frame ‘prong’ with the fabric strips by wrapping them. A hot glue gun was used to fasten the hold (and for everything else to0-the ribbon and beads).
From here, I began to string and wrap ribbon around the frame. This was a trial and error process. I eventually removed the original ribbon and restrung it around the frame for a better hold and a cleaner look.
Using the vintage bead strands, I restrung combinations of them on stretchy jewelry string I have on hand and tied the strands to the frame.
Then, I embellished the corners with buttons and beads and draped some fabric over some of the sides of the frame to alter the look.
Finally, I finished with tying the leftover beads in the center of the frame so that when it hangs like a mobile, it’ll have dangly fun colors and shapes to show off.
The very last step is to string the lampshade to the ceiling, which I have yet to do. I’ll post a grand finale picture when the rest of the nursery is set up.
There are no pictures of applying the ribbon because that process is entirely up to you and the particular look you’re going for. I didn’t want an entirely ‘shabby chic’ look, so I mixed it up with ripped fabric, but polished ties of ribbon. The colors used create some uniformity, but otherwise, the repetition of the ribbon is primarily random. So are the beads, buttons and draped fabric!
Thanks for reading! I’m getting my groove back as my puppy becomes more behaved and my body returns to normal (except for a growing middle)!
It’s time to stare down the elephant in the room and explain what has gone on around here.
When I started this blogging thing back in October, I thought I had established a pretty good posting schedule. The content was evolving, and has taken on a new direction. This seems like a natural course as you discover what it really is you’d like to share with others. I’m brand new to blogging. There’s a lot more I need to learn to polish up what I’ve shared as well as to keep improving.
Once our puppy Dottie arrived, things got a bit hectic. I was still able to post regularly, but completing my projects for the challenge I assigned myself (the 30 day project) became trickier. About a week into Dottie’s arrival, I noticed I was very tired. Assuming the fatigue was a result of this new puppy, I didn’t think too much of it.
Well, things were about to change again. Pregnancy greeted us just as our new puppy had two or three weeks earlier. Wow! Little did I know, the effects of pregnancy would hit me like a ton of bricks. Literally.
Pregnancy is like nothing I’ve experienced before. It’s an odd thing that can give you feelings of accomplishment and excitement, yet loneliness and frustration at the same time. For weeks I beat myself up for not being able to accomplish hardly anything I used to on a daily basis. Forget posting on the blog, updating DottietheDoodle.com, in addition to babysitting the pup, doing chores and going to work…and everything else in between. I couldn’t even make it to the gym anymore. My routine slowly unraveled until I had no routine anymore. It’s not just that my routine had disappeared, I felt so sick that some days it was a triumph to move off the couch and take Dottie for walk.
Although I know at the end of this arduous string of 9 months (oh my gosh, that’s scary) we’ll have another spectacular addition to our family, it is hard to get through each day at this point. Some days are better than others, but it is never easy. I think adding a puppy to the mix makes things extra difficult. In fact, I know it does. Again, there is light at the end of the tunnel, however, in the present it is still the trickiest situation I’ve ever had to deal with.
There are probably many things people don’t tell you about being pregnant. Just know, you aren’t alone and there are fellow pregnant women that feel the same way you do. Not all pregnancies are difficult. It depends on the person. Let’s sum up some pros and cons, from this pregnancy in particular:
sickness, for sake of clarification, morning sickness is non-existent, it’s ALL DAY sickness
depleted energy levels
ligament pain from the stretching of the uterus & other inside changes
acne due to hormone fluctuations
…mood & attitude changes due to hormone fluctuations! Need I say more about hormones?
difficulty doing & completing regular activities you’d normally not have issues with
the desire to exercise isn’t there
food aversions & cravings
loss of appetite, especially with nausea & vomiting
catching a killer cold; creates more mucus & makes you feel more sick
inability to take most medications
inability to swallow pills due to an increased gag reflex
creating & growing a person is a pretty neat thing!
adding a new addition to the family
planning your future & growing with your family
feelings of excitement for what awaits
the ability to get ample rest really helps
people who see you everyday are very understanding and helpful
some people can’t get pregnant, it’s good to be thankful
people all around you have done the same thing, ask for help if you need it
they say, typically after the first trimester, things get better
this list doesn’t catch up to the con list, but I bet after pregnancy is all said and done, the pros are infinite!
I expect that within the next few months I might be able to make it back to a somewhat regular schedule. I hope to resume my projects as well. I included a picture of my supplies, not getting any use. Sometimes life gets in the way. Isn’t that the beauty in it though?